《遗愿清单The Bucket List》观影感20170501

#Jessie2017电影清单#

五一在余姚过了一夜，本想去影院看最近刚上映的《喜欢你》，路不熟，小地方人少，看完电影快十点觉得不安全，手机只剩10%的电，最后还是在酒店找电影看。

这部《遗愿清单》《The Bucket List》很早就想看，能在酒店看掉，也算是不浪费一次在外过夜，瞬间感觉为旅途增值。[兔子]

这部电影对我来说是属于这类电影：看完一遍想再看一遍，第二遍听写下所有台词，校对一遍后再看第三遍，然后每天值得读读背背电影台词，尤其是经典旁白。

开头旁白：

It's difficult to understand someone's life. Some people will tell you to measure by the one they left behind. Some believe that it can be measured by faith. Some say by love. Other folks say life has no meaning at all. Me? I believe that you measure yourself by the people who measure themselves by you.

在埃及，Carter引用埃及人去世后灵魂能不能上天堂的话来问Edward：

Have you found your joy in your life?

Has your life brought joy to other people ?

这两句是整部片子对我触动最大的台词。从来没有思考过这两个问题。人生数载，意义不过就是围绕这两个问题展开，不管物质方面，精神方面，生理方面。

他们去高空跳伞（sky diving），纹身，赛车，去了非洲大草原，埃及金字塔，印度泰姬陵，中国长城、西藏看雪山，香港维多利亚港...

然而这些事情的实现并不难，难的是我们总沉浸在自己认为我们需要的忙碌中，拖着自己画的大圈圈疲惫地往前，而忘了应该要给自己适当减负，如戴着披风、坐着雪橇，优美地划出一个个人生曲度向前。

Carter死前给Edward的信中写道：

Everyone is everyone.

Our lives are streams,flowing into the same river,towards whatever heaven lies in the mist beyond the forest. Find the joy in your life. Close your eyes,and let the tears take you home.

Carter最后的旁白：

I know when he died ,his eyes were closed,and his heart was open. And I'm pretty sure he is happy with this final resting place. Because he was buried on a mountain. And that was against the law.

当最后骨灰被带到珠峰顶，登山者把那份bucket list上最后一条也是写下的第一条：Witness something truly majestic. 划掉时，那种呈现出来的人生圆满度是100%的。不能保证毫无遗憾，但在人生最后几个月鼓起勇气去做最想做的，去最心之所至的地方，这样的故事让观影者潸然泪下。

除了给人们在生时就努力去为了自己而活，还给予观影者暗示，人的一生中最重要的还是家庭，没有什么比家更让人喜悦。

我在给学生们教Family这个单词的时候，深深觉得这个单词的字母组成实在是妙不可言，family=father and mother，I love you.[心]这一点在我为人母的日子中，有越来越深的同意与理解。