1what is life final question?
when i was growing up, i heard that life final question is "who am i?"
another related parts are where am i from? and where am i going to?
later i found this is not the most important thing, cause "what am i in the future" depends on what am i doing today, what did i do in the past, in another words, "i" am not a fixed unchangable existing, so thinking about "who am i "is meaningless.
but eventually, i found another much more meaningful ultimate question that is "what is more important?"
actually, thinking about what is more important is the question tool for training values. and values are one of the operating system core elements, almost any decisions comes from the answer of this question tool." what is more important?"
ask this over and over again, getting to the bottom seriously, finally, you will get another more important answer, that is "what is the most important?"
this is the most effective thinking weapon.
anyway, using this blade, ending fight.
one quality is more important than another, "to love what you do" this is human genes design, you only can do well what you love, you can not do well what you dislike.l
love or not seems the "pre set condition", but this understanding is superficial, do you think free love marriage will be happy? do you think marry first love second then very happy family? you see, love or not, is not the must precondition.
among the crowded, there is another species, they are very good, because whatever they do, they will love what. they are able to love then they will do it continuously, if so, how could you not do well? another definition and judgment is to see if a person has strong executive ability only to know if he can do something continuously even if when he does something not good.
2why you always choosing wrong at key point?
we must eager for truth, even be humiliated.
the reason for having no method for important choice is that we haven't practiced our own principles.
so principles for formulating principles are:
since this principle is so important, what does it mean?
if I keep this principle, what I absolutely can not do? what I must do or have to do?
in this process, what is the biggest resistance how do I conquer it?
what do I learn in the keeping process?
what I lost and what I gained, how is the general "business"?
3how to get good satisfying answer?
what is good question?
first it can not be answered by simple searching, like some word, population in an area which can be solved by searching. the one who posing this question is a lazy person who is fear of trouble. but the first step for excellent is being not fear of trouble.
second this question has enough background information for supporting. the definition, what situation, refers to what conception, the tried methods. setting background information well needs a lot of time to analyze.
principles for posing
一，don't ask others if it can be answered by google
attention is the most precious, if you want basic work finished by others, you don't respect others attention.
二，you know your posing purpose.
you must figure out what is your question purpose for?
be careful about simple things, it might be the very important ones.
language we use will limit our thinking, most people learning english purpose is using english, and translating is one of the many uses. but how to translate this setence seems change this one using into the whole, this is wrong.
三，convinient for others answering
4why you always giving up halfway? root cause of excutive power weak is where?
the excutive means if one clearly knows how to do step by step?
task-you can?-do it?-keeping going?-done.
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you learn?
ok?
do?
keep going？
done
5if you can firmly believe you can become better you?
it is feeling, not hope, even not believing, it is firmly believe(120% believe), not "may possilble" it is clearly "can", if you are not frimly believe, only hope or feeling, then the"can" only can become "may possible" or clearly "can't".
if you don't keep firmly believe that you can become the better you, it is necessary for you to go on reading.
using right method to do the right thing, you will become much better!
your future will be great if you using right way to do the right thing continuously for a long time.
using the right way to do the right thing, be friends with time.
you must believe in yourself, cause except you no one else will believe this.
everything has methodology, even method has methodology.
life, life, same, we always have method for better.
after writing down the words above, two things become more clearly.
first is you need to do things extremly good that is character stands for you.
second only knowing and doing are not get to the end, you need to keep going and over and over again until you made it, that is finish. so do not saying too early. suddenly i think about my mom, she is so great has so many widsoms and made it. i love her, my hero.