❓My child is very disobedient, he will feel fed up if I talk more, sometime we going into quarrel situation. As a reciter of Namo Amitabha Buddha, what should we do?
Few advices: chanting and ‘shut up’ our ‘nagging’ mouth, be a good model and love them ; as long as we do our best, let the children grow themselves. Only then the good relationships can be maintained.
Children have their own karma. If presence of unpleasant karma, even we are the parents, we can’t do anything for them. For this moment, we can rely of Amitabha Buddha’s power, chanting always. And this merits will help them get rid of these unpleasant situation.
Love the children and stop nagging on them, especially when children feeling very upset. Do not always talk ‘reasons’ with them because people nowadays, even the children know much more reasons than us. The upset feelings only can be cured by loving and good care to them. We can help the children go through the upset first before we only know to nagging and complaints. Small small things do not always have to be mentioned. If we nagging more, the children certainly will feel fed up.
As the parents, if we try our best to lead our child, then we have to let the children grow by themselves. We do not have other solution. Sometime we need to give them some personal space especially children nowadays have their own mindset in very young age. In this way, the relationship with the child will maintained at a good level, the children at least know that there is warm haven of home when they are facing problems. If not, we want to do what we want, the relationship will become very tense and may end up with worst result.
Everything we need blessing from Amitabha Buddha. So, we try to do our best, and chanting Namo Amitabha Buddha always, under protections of Buddha, there will be well results.
南无阿弥陀佛
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