Chapter 1 When you are losing, everything hurts

Losing is a topic we seldom or reluctent to talk about most of the time. However, if a man want to grow, without facing his true enemy - himself, there is no way that he will grow and stepping onto a higher ground. I love the descriptions that John put on the following words about failure:

Humility: The Spirit of Learning

Reality: The Foundation of Learning

Responsibility: The First Step of Learning

Improvement: The Focus of Learning

Hope: The Motivation of Learning

Teachability: The Pathway of Learning

Adversity: The Catalyst of Learning

Problems: Opportunities for Learning

Bad Experiences: The Perspective for Learning

Change: The Price of Learning

Maturity: The Value of Learning

I am on the beginning stage of pursuing my new dream and goals in my life. I have got to say that a lot of times I got confused and fearful of things that are going to happen in the future. 

I do not know how to start my new business, how to grow it and most of all, if I fail, I will lost a lot of money and my life would be in a chaos. You see the fear of the unknown become the No.1 reason that hindered me from grow and pursuing my dream. 

Also there are other times that I think a lot about some other possibilities as well, I am not sure about what my goals are and it keep changing and shifting.

But from today, I think it is the moment I stop thinking about my fear and start to plan and DO what is necessary to be done.

Sometimes, we need to let go of the things we have hold up so precious in order to grow. If we are holding back our past, either failure or achievement, we can never able to run very far.