If lovers keep their vows and oaths for long, how could love be thrown as useless fan in autumn.
“Us and them” is on several days ago. Have you found some familiar scenes? Do the scenes and the feelings touch you? “Years later, there is no us although you are still you, I am still me”. We passed the buck to time, claiming that we departed because of time, we lost each other as time goes by. Then we resent, we regret, but time will not go back.
Love knows no beginning but lasts long and goes deep. So sentimental, so wonderful. The atmosphere is pink, full of love. A breeze puffs, full of fragrant. No matter how love comes, fall in love at the first sight, fall in love in a long time, the feeling grows, attracting two hearts. One heart touches another, is always so fantastic. Jianqing Lin and Xiaoxiao Fang met each other on a train, knew each other in Beijing. The two young and hopeful hearts came closer and closer. Life was bitter and hard, living in a group-oriented accommodation where there was no sunshine, sharing a bag of instant-noodles. Even so, they felt delight and sweet. Although longed for luxurious cars and houses, longed for excellent food, they were less important compared with love. As long as beloved people is together with us, is good enough. It is not the food that is important, but the people who is with us when having food is important. Surely the two people gave tacit consent.
However, as a man, if loves a woman sincerely, he is unwilling to make his beloved one suffer from poor life. When promising love, Jianqing was striving for better material life. But achieving success is not easy at all, capital accumulation is not quick as well. More haste, less speed. If you are impatient with your career development, you will get half the result with twice the effort. Then how important to have a lover who understands your situation, like Jiahui Lin to Ang Lee. But to Jianqing, that was not the case. Xiaoxiao’s understanding was regarded as distrust and despise. He was so stubborn that failed to understand Xiaoxiao. If there is lack of understanding between two people, then contradiction occurs. Xiaoxiao’s lack of care for poverty was regarded by Jianqing as deny of his capability. Gradually, he did not identify her love, he alienated her, he treated their relationship in cold war. He did not know that cold war was the sharpest weapon to damage a relationship. There is no communication between each other, it will end in a habit gradually. Like Yun Meng and Jia Lin, no one was able to get rid of the so-called face, and finally they lost the position to talk. So that was what it was, love was less important than face, love was so weak. The solemn pledge of love, the experience, the understanding and feeling, disappeared in the long period of time, finally.
There is no destined couple, there is no relationship without contradiction. Once contradiction comes, a serious quarrel is better than cold war. When fridge goes wrong, need to be fixed. It is the last choice to let it function as usual until it comes to an end. If two have a peaceful communication, have a discussion on dis-satisfactions and problems, then many issues will be solved. If Jianqing and Xiaoxiao could have a calm communication, then they would achieve “the dawn which is covered by the darkness”.
We departed as time goes by. Jianqing tried to ask for going back when Xiaoxiao proposed to break up, but he was not sincere and persistent enough. One was inside the subway, one was outside, the subway did not drove while the door was open. However, Jianqing did not step forward although the distance was very short. He let the subway took Xiaoxiao away, far from distance and disappeared. Jianqing thought it was his poverty which drove Xiaoxiao to depart, he could get her back as long as he became rich. It is obvious that most men agree with him, that most women love money, they love men because of money. But they do not know that women are emotional, money or feeling, women usually choose the latter. I would like to strive with you, but you seem refuse to give me the opportunity. Since you do not understand my feelings, then I have to leave. Although the feeling is strong, we are destined not to be together.
It is easy to fall in love, but it is hard to get along. Lack of manage, destined vanish. “I disappear quietly, the same way as I came”. Years later, they met again. Although their feeling was the same, but she was no longer her, he was no longer him, it was unable to going back. Happiness comes so fast and easy which makes us forget to cherish it and squander it at will. We do not realize the hurt until we lose it, only then do we understand the regret. Why did we act like this if we had known the result?
If Jianqing entered the subway that day, if Jianqing understood Xiaoxiao, if they had a calm communication, what they would be? But it could only be if, it could only be fantasy, no one knows the answer.
When we were together, we believed that we were destined; when broke up, we blamed the other. Not until we lost each other finally do we understand that both of us have wrongs. Unfortunately, time flies that we lost each other among huge crowds.
Hope each of us knows how to cherish when we can.