2019-05-23pride and prejudice 02

Mr. Bennet was among the earliest of those who waited on Mr. Bingley.He had always intended to visit him,though to the last always assuring his wife that he should not go; and till the evening after the visit was paid, she had no knowledge of it . It was then disclosed in the following manner. Observing his second daughter employed in trimming a hat,he suddenly addressed her with, "I hope Mr. Bingley will like it, Lizzy."

贝内特先生是最先拜访宾利先生的人之一。他本来早就打算前去拜访，可在太太面前却始终咬定绝不会去。直到他去拜访过后的那天晚上，贝内特太太才得知实情。（当时，）事情是这样透露出来的。看到二女儿在装饰帽子，贝内特先生突然对她说：“我希望宾利先生会喜欢这顶帽子，莉齐”。

she is a selfish, hypocritical woman, and i have no opinion of her.

她是一个自私自利、假仁假义的女人，我瞧不起她。

you do not depend on her serving you.

你不指望她来替你效劳。

Have a little compassion on my nerves. You tear them to pieces.  haha 

稍许体谅我的神经吧，你简直叫我的神经涨裂了。

Kitty has no discretion in her coughs, she times them ill.

真不知趣，也不知道拣个时候。

as she will think it an act of kindness, if you decline the office, I will take it on myself.

what can be the meaning of that emphatic exclamation? 你怎么这样大惊小怪？

Do you consider the forms of introduction, and the stress that is laid on them, as nonsense?   你觉得替人家效劳做做介绍是毫无意义的事吗？