1，You Always Go Dutch
你们约会总是AA制
2, He's Always on the Phone
他总是手机不离手
3. He Can't Handle an IntellectualConversation
他聊不了有深度的话题
4，He Never Asks About Your Day
他从不关心你这天干了什么
5. He's Too Busy to Help You With Anything
他总是以很忙为借口，从不帮你做事
6，He Doesn't Know How
to Console You（When he sees you cry, he does nothing.When you're upset, he looksat you like you're crazy) .
他从不安慰你，当你难过的时候，反而觉得是你无事生非。
7. You Never Get Anything You Want （When you go to a restaurant, your boyfriend orders for you. Whenthetwo of you are watching TV together, you're always viewing his favoriteshow).
你总是得不到你想要的 （你们一起出去吃饭，总是点他喜欢的菜；你们一起看电视，总是看他喜欢的节目）。
8，He Pressures You （When he wants to do something, he wants to do it now. He doesn'tcareabout your concerns or reactions to the situation).
他总是强迫你 （他想干什么就干什么，从不关心你的感受）。
9. He Only Thinks About Himself (Everythingthat comesout of your boyfriend's mouth begins with "I". He's onlyworriedabout his own well-being).
他只考虑他自己 (他总是谈论自己，只关心自己好不好)。
10. He Brings Up Old Mistakes
他总是提起你曾经犯的错误。
11. You Don't Feel Appreciated
你总是得不到赞美。
12，He Forgets theImportant Things
他总是忘了重要的事情（例如生日、纪念日……）
13. He's Secretive （You never know whetherhe's coming or going.Your boyfriend could be doing anything when he's not withyou and you would haveno way of knowing).
你从不知道他的行踪。
14, He Talks to Other Women (He flirts withother womenright in front of you. He still mentions his ex. He even complimentsotherwomen's appearances in your presence).
他谈论别的女人（你在你面前和别人调情；仍然提及他的前女友；甚至称赞别的女人的长相）。
15. He's Not Supportive （Your boyfriend laughs atyour dreams and goals).
他不支持你的梦想、事业。
16. He Belittles You
他不尊重你。
17, You're Not His No. 1 Priority (He'drather spend timewith his friends than have an occasional date night with you-- at least that'show he makes you feel).
他不把你放在第一位 （他的朋友永远比你重要）。
18. He Doesn't Like Your Friends
他不喜欢你的朋友
19. He's Disrespectful to Your Family
他对你的家人不尊重。
20. He Cheats on You
他有外遇。