2021-06-16 “I don’t know what I want”

随时要观察言行，第二句话“我不知道我想要什么？”。这是让人迷惑又重要的话，有些人没有问，有些人没有答，有些人觉得不重要，闭上眼睛问问自己。

我们时常会在事业、健康以及社交上感觉不舒适。除了事实本事之外，有可能出现一个通常大家没有意识到的盲区思维。如果让我们去改善时，我们会说“我不知道我想要什么？”

我们可以通过反省去寻找到底什么让我们不开心，比如：

• 不满意的工作
• 漠不关心的伙伴
• 懒床的习惯

我以前认为生活的目的是幸福。但当我追求我的目标时，我意识到幸福是追求行动的副产品。如果你不知道你想要什么，你可以先从那些当下阻碍你生活愉快的事情下手改善。

从我个人而言，通过改善拖延症，确实提高了我的生活质量。当我停止对自己说“我稍后再做”，虽然事情很小，却让我的生活有了质变。

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This is a limiting belief that most people never become aware of. They know that their career, health, or relationship is making them unhappy. And yet, they do nothing because “I don’t know what I want!”

I’m sure you know exactly what’s making you unhappy. They’re easy to identify when we introspect. This could be:

• An unsatisfying job
• A partner who doesn’t care
• A bad sleeping habit

I used to think the purpose of life is happiness. But as I pursued my goals, I realized that happiness is a by-product of action. If you don’t know what you want, you can start by improving the areas in your life that keep you from living well.

Personally, I’ve improved the quality of my life by beating procrastination. It starts with the small things. When we stop saying, “I’ll do it later,” we get a major boost in life.