There are many kinds of people, just be yourself. Don't pander too much. You did well, some people are jealous and deliberately slander you. You did a bad job and people laughed at you in the back. You're honest and forthright, and some people will say you're naive and unsophisticated. You have a deep city, people will say you are scheming. Are you tired of trying to cater to all kinds of people? The only thing you have to do is find the person you love and protect her. Other people don't care. Conclusion: in a complex modern society, disguise is necessary. No one is not hypocritical. Anyway. The reality is that you have to adapt to change. Remember: don't trust anyone. No one will be good to you. No matter meet strange and familiar people half heart is enough. The point is to work hard for yourself and your family. Give your wife a good life. Learn to read and speak. Make a profit for yourself. Come on
Future lover. Please understand me. I'll listen to you. Try to be in the same world as you. I hope you won't be naive. It's best to listen and observe. Then keep a little wary of everyone. It's good for you. Don't talk to me about people being kind. It was just a joke. Did you know that? I hate to see you get hurt too much, dear. Try to keep some people dark! Protect yourself
Learn to change and be a better person. I want to be a silent person, because I like to listen to what others say. I can understand a lot of information and learn a lot.
I notice what people are saying. I observe what people are saying. I know when to express myself. More importantly, I can prevent others from seeing through my heart and using my weaknesses. This is the most dangerous. The most important thing is to listen and observe in silence.
Language is humble, silence is noble, and only a fool can keep talking. Wise men are generally good listeners and observers. Get a lot of information from other people. It also prevents others from snooping on their own information.
In interpersonal communication, we should communicate with others more (it only takes half a heart), but not too much (we should tell others everything about ourselves), otherwise we will reveal our own information. Whether it's a stranger or an acquaintance (your best friend might give you a knife in the back). Avoid questions about privacy. Don't let others walk into your inner world and see through you. You can easily fail. Listen as much as you can. Observe how people speak. This is the wisdom of being human. See more, hear more, speak less. You can get a lot of information from others and protect yourself.
First of all, I'm not confident. Secondly, I may be a little self-closed. I'm not a good communicator and have a narrow social circle. Or am I a more face-oriented person, afraid that others will see through your heart, or will you be laughed at if you don't do well? Others see through your character and will not control you. Don't care too much about what others think of you. You believe you deserve your heart and do the right thing.
Tell myself: reality and the network is completely different, in reality, the malicious words may destroy others and yourself, sometimes a malicious language may hurt others, even others will revenge for you, you should pay attention to, and closed his mouth, he should do a good listener, silent to listen and observe what others say. Hide your true self. Don't treat everyone the same and don't look at people with colored glasses. Divide people into different classes and say different things to different people. Say as many compliments as you can. As long as others do not provoke themselves, do not use malicious language to attack others.
Try to be yourself. Ignore a few disgraceful people. Take good care of yourself. Because no one in the world will love you except yourself. Dear you are not strong, there are many people waiting to see your jokes. You must try to find someone you love to protect him. You can be cold and cold to others. Always alone. A man's business is his business.
So work hard when you're young, so that you can get into a high-quality circle of friends later. Everyone in this world, however great and noble, has enemies. People don't really like him or even hate him. But some people are always uneasy about it: I am good to them, but there are always some people who are not good to me, don't like me, and even hate me. Although we can't make everyone like us, don't make everyone hate us. So try to be quiet and listen. Remember: work and study come first. All relationships are fake. Use your spare time to surf the Internet.
You ask yourself, do you like everyone in the world? You can't like everyone in the world, and you can't ask everyone in the world to like you. There are a few people who don't like you. This is perfectly normal.
We cannot live to please everyone, to please everyone. Otherwise people will not be too tired to live, what is the meaning of life? An important purpose of life is to live freely, naturally and happily. Relationships don't require you to belittle yourself and pander to others. Even if you do, no one will like you. Some people will despise you even more. All you have to do is have a cold heart. Put all your attention on work and participate in the fierce social competition.
Although we cannot win the support of the people all over the world, we should try our best to reduce the number of our enemies. Don't offend others by our mistakes and our wrong treatment of others. Whether we like it or not, the people around us are real, and they have a huge impact on our lives. In today's world, we cannot achieve any success or happiness without paying attention to these details