接纳不完美的自己（23）Accept the Imperfect Self (23)

    别人的缺点就是我的缺点

      如果我们为某个人或某种事物所影响，那么他或者它很有可能携带了我们的投影。

        如果你发现自己对别人的某些特质非常敏感，那就要注意了，这些特质往往正是你所刻意压抑的。你应该以此为契机，探索自己的内心世界，重新接纳这些原本被你排斥和否定的特质。

        我们之所以会对别人的某些做法特别敏感，往往是因为这些做法与我们自己的心灵阴影有关。

      我们眼中别人的缺点，几乎都是我们自己内心中缺点的投影。我们对别人评头论足时，其实是在评论我们自己。那些被你压抑的消极特质和想法，有可能会在你意料不到的时候突然爆发出来，伤害你周围的人，也有可能会影响你的潜意识icon，伤害你自己。你遇到的每一个人、每一件事，都不是偶然的，都折射出你自己真实的内心世界。

        世界就像一面镜子，反映出来的永远是你自己的形象。你身上的每一种特质都有其意义，每一种特质的存在都是合情合理的。

 

      The weakness of others is my weakness

If we are affected by someone or something, then he or it is likely to carry our projection.

If you find yourself very sensitive to certain characteristics of others, you should pay attention to them. These characteristics are often what you deliberately suppress. You should take this as an opportunity to explore your inner world and re-accept these traits that were originally rejected and denied by you.

        The reason why we are particularly sensitive to certain practices of others is often because these practices are related to our own spiritual shadow.

       

      The shortcomings of others in our eyes are almost the projection of our own inner shortcomings. When we judge others, we are actually commenting on ourselves. Those negative traits and thoughts that you repress may burst out when you don't expect them, hurting people around you, or affecting your subconscious and hurting yourself. Every person and every thing you meet is not accidental. It reflects your true inner world.

          The world is like a mirror, reflecting your own image forever. Every trait in you has its meaning, and its existence is reasonable.