[Quora] 一个人一辈子能拥有的最宝贵的本领是？

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What is the most valuable skill a person can have for their entire life?
一个人一辈子能拥有的最宝贵的本领是？

Sonia Chauhan：
Letting go.
放下

Truly, truly understanding that something is not meant for me. And I will not obtain it. And I need to improvise now, I need to figure out something else. I need to change my plans. Deep breath. Another one. Another one. Okay, I am going to change my plan now = This attitude.

真正， 真正的的明白某些事物注定不是我的，并且我也不会获得它。我需要随机应变，找到其他的东西。 我需要改变自己的规划。深呼吸，重复，再重复。好，我将要改变自己的规划=就是这个态度

Letting go.
放下

Of all the material greeds and the clothes that you're never going to wear.
放下你的贪欲以及那些你永远都不会再穿的衣物
Of the shallow attitude of being impressed by somebody's fancy watch than by their wit.
放下会被精美的手表而不是别人的智慧所折服这样肤浅的态度
Of waiting for them to like and awww your FB page.
放下等待别人来给你的 Facebook 主页点赞
Of the hot wax drops on your heart when your friends choose someone else over you.
放下当你的朋友们选择了别人而不是你时内心犹如被人滴蜡般的感觉
Of the guy for whom you're not enough but you can't get enough of.
放下那个你想从他身上得到更多却无法获得更多的人
Of judging everyone by the same scale. Actually, judging everyone.
放下用同样的标准评价所有人，事实上，是评价每一个人
Of all the little hurts and angers that you still keep close to your heart.
放下那些让你受伤与生气的并仍然难以忘怀的小伤痛
Of the walls you build up because someone hurt you in the past
放下因某人过去伤害过你而在自己心中构建起的城墙
Of being unkind to your colleagues because the office sucks.
放下因为办公室的问题而对自己的同事不友善
Of generally being unkind because you got it bad. As if they've got it good.
放下因为自己难受而对别人不友善，别人也没有好受到哪里去
Of giving too much of a shit to idiots around you.
放下对身边的白痴投去过多的关注
Of getting bothered by things that really don't matter in the long run.
放下在生活的长途上那些不重要却一直困扰你的事情
Of the small little grudges that are stacking up.
放下那些不断累积的小怨恨
Of keeping score.
放下对什么事情都要计分
Of not being able to forgive the girl who cheated on you.
放下曾经欺骗过你的而你却不能原谅的女孩儿
Of not letting go of the people who moved on.
放下那些离你远去的而你却不能放手的人
Of blaming yourself that you never did enough for your parents.
放下埋怨自己关于不能为父母做得更多
Of repenting over all the lost opportunities.
放下懊悔那些已经失去的机遇
Of trying to make someone love you.
放下试图让某人爱你

Letting Go.
放下

The. Most. Valuable. Skill. Ever.
最.宝.贵.本.领