在quora上看的一个很有质量的问答，按我自己的理解翻译过来一小部分和大家分享一下。不足之处请指正。感兴趣的请看原问题：quora
Highly upvoted answers below make the following points:
Marry your best friend: If the person you're the most comfortable with isn't your spouse, make them! (Assuming this person is not your family member)
Don't try to be a "grown up": Always have fun. Mud-wrestle, sing, pillow-fight, at any age.
Don't stop learning: If you start coasting through life, you're gonna lose. Always stretch your intellect.
Don't always try to be original:Just tell the story or paint the canvas or whatever.
Focusing on "fairness" will lead to stagnation.
If you're not failing, you're doing it wrong. (It's OK to make mistakes.)
Don't try to reason with mindless, irrational people.
Don't stress yourself out with news and "staying informed" too much.
Do something that's not for money.
The key to happiness is BUILDING stuff, not GETTING stuff.
True love and a good marriage involve a lot of fighting, not serenity.
Time passes by a lot faster than you'd think.This effect accelerates with age.
Wealth is relatively unimportant.
Some things can't be learned; they can only be experienced.
Figure out who you are, then ACCEPT that person, and then BE that person.
Don't wait for permission.Give yourself the okay.
Don't lie to yourself.
Forgive as much as possible. Grudges achieve little.
Be humble (especially to the "little" people).
You and you alone control how happy you allow yourself to be.
Find a mentor and BE a mentor.
Find what you like and let it kill you.
If you have to go to the bathroom, stop what you are doing and go.Don't try to "hold it."
You don't have to eat everything that's on your plate.
You don't have to pick up a phone that's ringing.
Always take action on things.People regret inaction more than action.
The past is something you learn from. It is not something you live in.
Wealth is measured by your happiness and not by your financial statement.
Your mind decides what is hopeless. Your circumstances do not.
以下高投票提到的要点：
嫁给你最好的朋友：如果你和那个人在一起时感到最舒服时，让他成为你的配偶。（当然那个人不是你的家庭成员）
不要努力或试着让自己看起来像个“成熟”的人：一直保持玩乐的心态，在泥里摔跤，唱歌，枕头战，在任何年龄段。
不要停止学习：如果你的生活开始惯性滑行，你将会开始失去。一直保持扩展自己的技能
不要太过于呆板：会讲故事的人才是有趣的人
不要太计较“公平”，这样只会让你变得停滞不前。
如果你没有失败，说明你做的方式是错误的。（失败才是正常的）
不要和非理性的群众一起盲目。
不要让过多的的信息绑架你，这只会让你变得更焦虑。也不要在一种生活的”框架“里呆的太久。
做一些和钱没关系的事，也许那才是价值。
幸福的钥匙是去自己建造东西，而不是获得和消费东西
真爱和好的婚姻包含着一系列的斗争，而不是单纯和静态
时间比你想象中过的快，而且随着年龄的增长而加速。
财富是相对不重要的
有些东西是学不来的，只有你亲身经历才行。
明确你是谁，然后接受自己，然后成为你
不要被规矩限制，根本没有允许和不允许，只要你感到好就行。
不要自欺
尽可能宽恕别人，愤怒解决不了问题
谦卑。（尤其是对于那些”小“人）
你可以控制你的快乐限度的
找到一个导师，然后成为一个导师
找到你喜欢的东西然后让你喜欢的东西杀掉你。
如果你有洗澡的打算，停止你正在做的然后去洗，不要对自己说过会再洗。
你没有必要吃完你盘子里所有的东西。
你没有必要接每个电话。
行动。
不要迷恋过去，过去是你可以从中获取经验，而不是要和过去生活在一起。向前看。
真正的财富是你自身的幸福感来衡量的，而不是你的经济状况。
让你陷入绝望的是你的心态