Boundary

Hello, this is Jane.

About virtues to get along with families.

I have heard a principle that, do not give suggestions to others, unless they ask for it,  or that is about live or death problems.

But in our families, the elders always play as the youngers’ teacher.

Because of love. But if the youngers do not obey their suggestion. That would always lead a warfare.

I think the most important thing is to construct everyone’s boundary in the family.

And we would protect it .

  Not because we bring up our babies so we can control their life.

We should bring up a baby to a independent person can control their life by themselves.

So in my opinion, construct a clear boundary and protect it is the most important virtue in the family.