We have higher goals but lesser actions. This is not new to us.
Actually we hear this everyday, we all want to be successful but then we go back to what we usually do.
We still couldn't achieve them even if we know what we have to do reach that. I think the main reason is that we just couldn't afford to take risks.
We don't like to be hurt even if we know that there's a big chance for us to reach our goal after a hurtful process. Personally, I also think this is what the successful people have-they have the determination and they are willing to take risks, they are not afraid to get out of their comfort zones.
Let's say you made the same goal with a person and to reconcile after several years to see the results but time flies, maybe that other person is already very close to your goals or perhaps he's even there now but what about you?
You still stand in the same place because you didn't make full use of your time.
What would you say?
Would you criticize him or celebrate with him?
Would you blame the society?
No, you couldn't do that. If you still haven't reach your goal, you've got no one to blame but yourself.
What I want to say here is, my dear, if you realized the things that I mentioned above then it's still not too late and we may still change as long as you're willing to.
My dear, please don't be afraid to get out of your comfort zone,
do not be afraid of failures,
do not be afraid of pain.
These are other ways to remind you to go further and bear it all because the only things you will regret are the things you didn't do so just do it and you may meet the person you want to be...