2022-5-28 茂名峰会上补上这一课。
The skills you need to become world champion
1. online vs offline, familar and unfamilar
2. effective speech travels your body, start with your mind (mindset, not about you, about the audience), move to your chest (story), back to our head, finally arms, action.
you can do it, but it's gone be hard. Then I know it's hard, I will keep pressing through.
Your life will be harder but you will be more stronger when you go through these.
I was cut but I feel sorry for them as they lose a rock star.
Try to focus one person in the audience who need to hear the message.
Human make decisions emotionally, but look for rational reasons.
4. You can't be Mike, Darren, you can be absolutely best of you.
TM help someone be the best of him/her.
Cut things other unnncessary thing and let the art reveal itself. Journal/Write 15 min everyday.
5. what's my version of the story. Impactful story.
当你的脑子一直在想一件事，不论你说出来还是没有说出来，你的脑子已经在帮你寻找了。
6. have a creative diet, look for weird stuffs, go to amazing arts.
Q1 overcome fear
A1 We microevolve and sometimes it's needed. Nervous and exciting has same reaction in the body. Say it out rather than I'm neverous, say I'm exciting to talk to this group. I call out the universe and help me focus to just talk to one person.
Q2 how you start your speech
A1 Start with a story that makes me feel something, and then look for the reasons why it's impactful on me, and then look for universal truth, Blue, his high school classmate live a joyful life even know she will die young. In the middle of Covid we can't find joy. 140 words/min. Practic and video.
Q3 how to conqur speech contest failure and bounce forward
A3 you are so right. It's about what self talk to yourself. In a contest, make a speech that I will make the best, bring message that will help people's life. People can achive higher wtih lower stress.
Q4 how to make the story more attractive, full of up and downs.
A4: RIGHT INTO THE middle of the story. British drama, chormo?. 3 point of structure, start wtih one story, ask question, another one, ask question, 3rd story, ask, and them link back.
cascading wave, using one of two phrase drop in your speech.
Thank you so much for inviting me and allowing me to join you today!! You are all wonderful humans – let’s connect at MikeCarrOfficial.com or on Instagram, Facebook, or LinkedIn!
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International speech contest
1. FZ-2nd place: Lose focus, frame focus snap. WX TM, cooperate trainer. Life is not addition but reduction, not regretful for no have everything.
2. KHY-How to win: challenge people's expectation, inspires change. Div P, different, stand out, special.
3. KL-3rd place -candle: be the candle to others, happy wife, happy life, when grandpa pass away, he become candle to her wife. Touching story about grandfather.
4. FG-1st Message in a Bottle: are you find words from your heart, are your talking people through their heart. We have your back, thanks for listening.
They don't care how much you know until they know how much you care. The best way to get the best out of the people is to show them we care.
5. HX: are you crazy? it's your life, can you embrace your life and celebrate every tiny moment? nobody can take and change. Coaching: Close your eyes and think: what are you thankful and where are you willing to go? How do you feel when you get there. What will future you talk to current you?
6. AZ-Chocolate Candy? Give yourself or others a second chance. Principle. Given a task to organize school event, Nobody to somebody, punishment to trust. Judge or punishment, or give a second chance. When you see someone make mistake, don't blame but tell them how to correct.