Like names, destinies are more of others than ourselves

True inside feelings always have great chances to differ from what was seen from outside, beauty of lives is not what it should to be or what is supposed to be, both happiness and sadness are because we have the ability to feel. Honour what we had been given than what "should" but had not, is always a way leads to feel of good life.

Destiny be a matter of enclosement after our death, that's meaningful for successors' talk, not ours.

No matter what is going on, we are alive, that's certain enough for cheers!