If your parents discovered your secrets, what will you do?

每一个屋顶下面都有秘密，每个人也有属于自己的小秘密。有些人喜欢把自己的秘密写在日记上，也许那里记录着一些你的丑事，也许那里写着一些关于你早恋的故事……每个人都有好奇心，如果你的秘密日记等被你的父母偷看了，那就等于你的秘密被揭穿了。这也许是件让你觉得非常不痛快的事情。

Every cupboard has its skeleton. Everyone has its own secret. Some people like to put them down in the diary; including some bloopers, the romantic affaires in the early times… everyone has curiosity. Once your diary has been read by your parents, your secrets will be exposed. That is the most uneasy thing you might have ever experienced.

 

The following are some people's point of view(观点):

 

it is a galling(烦恼的) thing if my parents know my secrets!

 

Maybe i will be worried...and feel troublesome...

 

i have no experience like this and i have never think of this  scene(情景)

 

maybe sometimes i will tell them the truth, sometimes will tell the lie.

 

I will be afraid ,how can i do? plan how to answer their question , told them the

original(最初的) and pursuit help or  cheating ...oh,terrible things.

 

if my parents discoverde my secret , I will unhapply.

To my parents , they think read my diary for the sake of  know that what is worry with

me and what happend for me  in the near future , that is kindness , so I can 

understanding .

 

that's hard to say ,when i was young little boy, i think it was not a big deal,if my

parents discoveried my secret. coz,parents  thought that that ways they did was a

display their love,it was normal.
now i'm a man, even my parents discoveried my scerets, usually,they don't say anything

about it ,just like they haven't seen it yet. coz, they believe i can do it by myself.

and they trust me that i could tell the true from wrong

 

I will pretend(假扮) that I don't know that they have found my secret.But I'll never

write my secret in my dairy anymore.

 

Generally I would ask them to forgive me cause if it is a secret for my parents it is

high probablity to be some bad things. Otherwise I would not hide it. Of course, I am

not for parents to look at kid's diary without the owner's permission. Yet we should

give some channels to let your parents to know your conditions.  They love you so they

would like to know everything about you. Personally it is not 100% reasonable to keep

all your secrets or bad news in your diary.

Open it~~
And try to communicate with them.
Maybe they can give good advice...
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Sometimes, I feel that nothing is secret...
They know everything, just dress up - have no idea ... ...

In my opinion, no matter what you are experiencing, you have just face it. There is no

other choice. If my secrets were discovered by accidently, I will keep positive and

sincere to discuss about it. I will tell my parents how I really feel and I need their's

understanding. Actually, I just want to communicate with them and let them know I love

them and trust them. I just want to keep a little private space and I need their 's

respect. Of course, I would like to share it if it is not privated any more. Sometimes,

you may find that the secrets you kept before are not matters when you look back.

 Now i have had not the habit of writing dairy, i put my seracts into my heart and will

not tell anybody.
    When i was young, i always writen diary for my seracts, in that time,i am very

worried if they discoverd it, but they didn't, he he ,i am lucky.

 

if i am around 16 years old,maybe i will be argry and embarrassed,and in fact,it turned

out so. i was in a secret love for a boy, but i don't have the courage to tell him about

my love. i wrote diary everyday . however ,my parents were so good that they talked with

me about my love deeply  when they got it from my diary. they gave me many available

advices .all they have done made me calm down.i am so lucky .so if your secrets are

exposed,just be calm down.they are your parents ,you can have a talk with them.they love you . don't be crazy and shouting at your parents.it is useless.
now i am around 24 years old,i have already got to understand my parents.if there are

any of my secrets exposed to them ,i won't worry about myself , instead of worrying about

my parents,cause maybe they will be hurt from my secrets about  which i don't want to

let them down. it is terrible.

 

at beginning ,i fell bad in my mind .and maybe i will quarral with them .
and tell them if i want to tell them ,i will .tell them not to do so next time /

如果秘密被父母发现了，我想，很多人会是这样的做法：很生气的对父母说，这种做法是不对的！
但是，细想一下，天底下，最了解自己的朋友莫过于父母了。有什么话不可以对父母讲？有很多人，

敢于把自己的一些极其隐私的事情告诉父母，而这些事情对于大多数人来讲，是难以启齿的。我非常

羡慕这些孩子，因为，他们把父母当成了最知心朋友，而事实上，我们每个人都应该这样。因为，父

母是最爱我们的，最了解我们的，最能给予自己帮助的。你想想，不是这样吗？
我们应该是父母的全部，而父母也是我们的全部。
If the secret discovered by their parents, I think many people would be such an

approach: for parents of very angry that this is not right!
However, reflect on earth, the most aware of their friends than parents. What if parents

can not speak? There are many people who dare to own some great things to tell their

parents of privacy, and these things for most people, it is difficult to talk of.. I am

very envious of these children, because their parents as the most intimate friends, in

fact, each of us should be. Because parents are our favorite, the most understanding of

our most helpful to give yourself. If you think about it, not so?
we should be their all,and they should be.

i  understand  my  parents  why  want  to   read  my  diary,because  they  want  know 

more  about  me,and  want  to  protect   their  kid    to  avoid  doing something 

wrong.but   i   will  talk  to them ,tell   them  some  better  way  to   konw  me.

If my secret has been found by my parents,maybe I feel very angry
and shout for them but I don't have any experience about it
if my parents knew something of  I wann't tell tell them ,they maybe pretend they didn't

know as before they trust me,and they think I can face  it well