closesocket和linger，关于安全关闭socket（转自MSDN）
If the l_onoff member of the LINGER structure is zero on a stream socket, the closesocket call will return immediately and does not receive WSAEWOULDBLOCK whether the socket is blocking or nonblocking. However, any data queued for transmission will be sent, if possible, before the underlying socket is closed. This is also called a graceful disconnect or close. In this case, the Windows Sockets provider cannot release the socket and other resources for an arbitrary period, thus affecting applications that expect to use all available sockets. This is the default behavior for a socket.
If the l_onoff member of the linger structure is non-zero and l_linger member is zero, closesocket is not blocked even if queued data has not yet been sent or acknowledged. This is called a hard or abortive close, because the socket's virtual circuit is reset immediately, and any unsent data is lost. On Windows, any recv call on the remote side of the circuit will fail with WSAECONNRESET.
If the l_onoff member of the linger structure is set to non-zero and l_linger member is set to a non-zero timeout on a blocking socket, the closesocket call blocks until the remaining data has been sent or until the timeout expires. This is called a graceful disconnect or close if all of the data is sent within timeout value specified in the l_linger member. If the timeout expires before all data has been sent, the Windows Sockets implementation terminates the connection before closesocket returns and this is called a hard or abortive close.
Setting the l_onoff member of the linger structure to non-zero and the l_linger member with a non-zero timeout interval on a nonblocking socket is not recommended. In this case, the call to closesocket will fail with an error of WSAEWOULDBLOCK if the close operation cannot be completed immediately. If closesocket fails with WSAEWOULDBLOCK the socket handle is still valid, and a disconnect is not initiated. The application must call closesocket again to close the socket.
If the l_onoff member of the linger structure is non-zero and the l_linger member is a non-zero timeout interval on a blocking socket, the result of the closesocket function can't be used to determine whether all data has been sent to the peer. If the data is sent before the timeout specified in the l_linger member expires or if the connection was aborted, the closesocket function won’t return an error code (the return value from the closesocket function is zero). The closesocket call will only block until all data has been delivered to the peer or the timeout expires. If the connection is reset because the timeout expires, then the socket will not go into TIME_WAIT state. If all data is sent within the timeout period, then the socket can go into TIME_WAIT state.
If the l_onoff member of the linger structure is non-zero and the l_linger member is a zero timeout interval on a blocking socket, then a call to closesocket will reset the connection. The socket will not go to the TIME_WAIT state.