作为一个在西班牙长大的英国人,Duncan一直是虎芽的招牌教练,受到很多小朋友和家长的喜爱。这个高大帅气的大男孩是怎样的一个人?通过这封Duncan的亲笔信,我们一起走进他的故事。
Crewe, Cheshire, 30 Km from Manchester. 9th August 1994. I think my mother gave birth to me and a football at the same time. Ever since that day football has been part of me. Ironically my surname was of a former Manchester United legend, and with my father being a Manchester United supporter ever since he was a child, he decided that if I were a boy, I would be called Duncan, after the former Manchester United player. Duncan Edwards. My namesake was a 21 year old physical and technical machine, said by many to be the future of not only English football, but of world football in the late 50’s. He tragically died many weeks after the Munich air disaster.
My whole family from my father’s side were die hard Manchester United fans. We used to own a car park close to the stadium, Old Trafford, where my father would work every Saturday before the games. And of course I went with him. Early mornings leaving home, playing football in the car park, dribbling around parked cars, and more than once nearly getting smashed by oncoming cars, I would recreate being the stars of Old Trafford, “BECKHAM WITH THE CROSS, AND EDWARDS SCOOOORES “ dreaming about the future and only hoping that one day I would be on that pitch. The reality is very different.
Duncan小时候和贝克汉姆的合影
Football is more than just a game, more than just a ball being kicked in to the net. It’s a sense of overwhelming emotions, of memories that stick, of belonging. The best day of the week was that Saturday when I would wake up, put on t-shirts sweaters, jackets, and on top of all that, my Manchester United top. I look back now after 20 years and remember it as if it was yesterday. Ever since then, I only wanted ever to be connected to football for the rest of my life.
曼联传奇教练弗格森抱着小时候的Duncan
At 8 years old my parents took the decision to leave England, to look for a better life in Spain. They decided on a small village in Malaga, Alcaucin, a village of just 2000 people. I hated it, I couldn’t speak Spanish and I was the only English person in the class, with just 1 teacher who could speak English. It was very hard for the first 2 years. I signed up for my first football team in Spain when I was 10, 2 years after arriving. As soon as that happened, I started to make friends. The wonderful world of football will unite people, and my case was just one more of many million over the world. When 13, I was invited to play for the Malaga u13 selection team, playing against different provinces in Andaluciawith 1 game each month, as well as playing for my local team every week.
球员时代的Duncan(后排左四)
Then the big step, I was signed by a youth academy. More pressure to perform, starting to move in to elite football. My team, Torre del Mar, played in the second highest level in Andalucia, facing teams like Malaga C.F, Granada C.F, Real Betis. It was an incredible experience to play against these professional academies, facing players like Samu Castillejo (A.C Milan) and Dani Ceballos (Arsenal). But I was always nervous playing, something that when I matured, would look back on and regret. Also, my father was very passionate, and every time I made a mistake, I would feel his eyes on me, making me even more pressured. All he wanted was for me to do my best, this I know, but it wasn’t in the correct manner that I wanted. This is for all the parents out there, DO NOT PRESSURE YOUR CHILDREN. Let them enjoy playing, let them make mistakes. You should be there to help them improve from them mistakes, for them to feel your support. At the age of 18 I felt disillusioned with playing. I stopped. I had decided already that I wanted to start coaching.
So I took up my first year of studying my Coaching license and mid level football coaching degree at the University of Granada, when I had just turned 20 years old. It had always fascinated me, the coaching side of football, the teaching, the tactical side, the motivational side. In the same year I start coaching a U18 side in Alhama de Granada, my home town in Spain now. It was an incredible experience, I loved it, we finished 4th in the League. An incredible experience for both myself and for the players, one that we enjoyed very much even though we were beaten.
执教家乡球队时的Duncan(后排左一)
After 2 years of continued study and coaching teams, the RFEF (Royal Spanish Federation of Football) offered me the chance to do an exchange for 1 month to Holland, as part of a deal they have to send coaches outside of Spain to gain experience of coaching. I travelled in my car from South Spain to the north of Holland, stopping at many beautiful cities and also seeing many different football stadiums. Arriving at Leeuwarden, I living on a boat on one of the many canals of the city, as I was already thinking about finding opportunities in China, as I knew that football was taking off in Asia.
In January of 2018 I started searching for jobs, I wanted to leave Spain, create my own life, my future, gain experience in a totally different country to the one I lived in. To escape from my comfort zone and challenge myself. Finally after months I found a half English half Chinese company that were willing to bring me to China.
On the 28th of August 2018, my oriental journey began. After some very sad goodbyes, I was flying out of Madrid with a 1 way ticket to China, not knowing what to happen. Luckily for me, the company I started working with I met some fantastic guys, coworkers who would help me with my first few weeks here in China. They are close friends now, even though each of us work in different companies and we constantly try to meet up to have a drink when possible from our busy schedules. Them first weeks of going to school in Minhang and Jiading, teaching up to 50 children at a time about football was a real shock. Very fun, and very hard work. After some weeks I was able to find a team to play with here in Shanghai, a team with a mix of different nationalities, but mostly British, playing in the Shanghai International Football League. Saturday afternoons playing football. Week days teaching football, I was dreaming. Trips to Beijing and Vietnam followed, and showed me how beautiful Asia is and what a history it has.
In March of 2019 I started working with Huya FC, wanting to build a very strong base of work for the future. For me, I had never coached children as small as the ones we have at Huya, and found it difficult to adapt training sessions to the age and quality of players, so it has been a great learning experience for myself personally, and even though I can still improve, I think I have adapted and gained experience of coaching, especially the basics of football. Little by little we went to work on how to build the club, and it has cost a lot of work, many hours and many meetings to find the best solutions possible for the club. We continue to work hard and try to improve the quality of our service, of the training, and so both parents and children have the best time with us.
After coming back from Spain in August from holiday, my mentality has changed. I feel more comfortable here in Shanghai now that I enter my second year. I still have much to learn and see. It’s never easy making such big changes in ones life, but with courage, love for what you do, an open mind, respect for others, a lot of sacrifice, (including leaving family, lifelong friends, routines) behind you, you can conquer the World, and you can be whatever you want to be in life.
今年8月份从西班牙度假回来后,我的心态发生了一些改变。我开始了在上海的第2年,我觉得更加舒服和开心了,当然我还有很多东西需要学习。生活发生如此大的变化,这对我来说并不容易,但只要有勇气、对事业的热爱、开放的心态、对他人的尊重、以及一些牺牲(离开家、朋友和原来的生活),这些东西都会支撑着你去征服世界,你可以成为任何你想成为的人。