Curiosity

I want to talk about if people should check on their boyfriend or girlfriend's phone. I used to be a person who refused to check on my boyfriend'sphone, for I think I should give him some privacy. But now, I may check on my boyfriend's phone. Because I shared with you before my first boyfriend cheated on me for almost a month, and I didn't know that immediately. When I knew that, I was heartbroken, and I didn't want to face the reality. Because I did everything I could to make sure we were in a good relationship, and I was so into him. I remember he refused to tell me the password of his phone, and it was possible for him to hide something. So I should notice the sign of our unhappy relationship and keep the curiosity about his strange behaviors. Now, I thought I will know he cheated on me if I checked on his phone or maybe he was not that into me. Then, it was possible to reduce the harmful effects of that relationship gave me. Some people believe curiosity killed the cat, but what I want to say is that people should cultivate a sense of curiosity, for it may bring them some unexpected benefits on our lives.

1.Cultivate 逐渐形成（某种态度、谈话或举止方式等）

E.g. He has cultivated a good sense of humor.

2.Stifle 压制，扼杀，阻止；窒息

E.g. She managed to stifle a yawn.

She felt she could be stifled in the airless room.

3.Mundane 单调的，平凡的

E.g. She has a mundane job.

Synonyms: dull, ordinary

4.Compatible 兼容的；关系好的，和睦相处的

E.g. She is compatible with her older sisters.

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