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What will you do when others misunderstand you? 1. Leave them alone and just let time do its work? 2. Try to find a third party to help you? 3. Try to explain yourself? We have to admit that in a situation like this, no matter which way you chose, there's always something that has changed but still we need to do something to cope with it. This is quite common and it happens more everyday than we thought. I still remember that I always use the first way to cope with this kind of issue since I always think simply and always let time deal with it. We don't need to think more since it will not make sense anymore. I also believe that if we are friends, you will understand what I mean without me explaining further so why need to complicate things? Otherwise, it's up to you. If you want to think it that way, then so be it. Despite this, sometimes, we tend to complicate things, we are troubled by this kind of things like why didn't she say any words to me today or why did she see me in a different view? Or even as simple as why didn't she ask me to go to the WC with her? These simple things bother us, like is there something wrong between us? We start to look back whether we said something offensive or they just misunderstood us but the fact is you're totally wrong because they just didn't focus on you but themselves, that's why they did the things mentioned above. After a deeper talk, "Oh my god. What? Just because of your bad mood that led me to think these? I couldn't believe it anymore.." So my dears, misunderstandings are inevitable but sometimes, it's only us who think that way. So what I want to say is if you find something wrong or something has changed then please stop to think by yourself instead of trying to have a talk with the people who think there is a misunderstanding. This is more direct and effective for both of you. What do you think?