20170422 关于对待孩子的九条经验 [中英互译]

当我翻译的时候，我会被这简单的图片和文字感染而动容，其实对待孩子就是对待成人，尊重是前提，耐心是态度，聆听是方法。

我在践行，我会注意避免居高临下看孩子，我喜欢和他们有平行视线的交流；
我也很庆幸，我的孩子在华德福教育也会受到同样的对待，例如每天到达和离开学校时，老师都会蹲下来，和孩子手拉手，对视着唱歌或简单问候，这种仪式感是最棒的。

p.s. 谢谢Kristina分享！

1. No matter who you are, please DO NOT DISTURB your children, when they are absorbed in something. - Let them do one thing at their own pace and desire.    

2.  No matter who you are, whatever happen, please never ever tell your children: "If you do it again, you will be abandoned by mom (or dad)", or " We dont like you anymore" or " We are angry about you" etc.

3. No matter who you are, where you are, when your children are crying and screaming, just let it go with highest patience and understanding.

4. No matter who you are, where you are, please respect the pattern of your children. Please do not push, blame or complain them for the sake of speed.

5.No matter who you are, where you are, please respect their rights to possess own stuff. Please DO NOT nag or ask them to share. 

6.No matter who you are, where you are, what happen, please DO NOT scold them, even with violence.

7.No matter who you are, where you are, please look at his eyes and listen carefully when a child is talking to you.

8. No matter who you are, where you are, please respect their rights to choose. put aside your own judgement and willing.

9. No matter who you are, where you are, please reach down, look at their eyes with the same eye level when you want to talk to them.

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