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46 February 22

      On the way we grow old.We will meet a lot of people and make friends with many different people.But from younger to old, how many friends have been with us all the time?Everyone should know,without contacts, even if the relationship is intimate, it  will become very rusty one day.What is the cause?Many people have their own ideas about this phenomenon, and I am no exception.

      The first point.When we were primitive people, we were able to maintain good relations with the people around us,to keep us together, to avoid difficulties, to defeat the enemy, which was of great evolutionary significance.The second point is that people's brain bandwidth is limited, and people can only deal with things and people  that are limited.The bandwidth distribution here is a little more, then the previous naturally is to be allocated less.The third point is about the human memory principle.The process of human memory is the process of increasing the synapse of the brain.If there is no repetition, this layer will become weaker and weaker.If people do not contact, then the memory of two people will become weaker and weaker.

    So if you want to keep a good relationship with someone, it's essential to keep in touch.

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