Who do you think of when you are alone
当你孤单你会想起谁 你想不想找个人来陪
你的快乐伤悲 只有我能体会
让我再陪你走一回 你的心情总在飞
什么事都想去追 想抓住一点安慰
你总是喜欢在人群中徘徊 你最害怕孤单的滋味
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看到上面的几句歌词，我想大家应该都听过这首歌，张栋梁翻唱的：当你孤单你会想起谁，这首歌唱曾经听哭过太多伤心的人，这首歌唱出了无奈和伤感，表达的就是孤独与陪伴治愈的音乐
那么今天我们就讨论这首歌引出的话题：当你孤单你会想起谁？
随着现在社会的发展，人与人的关系远不如以前那么近，大家都在忙碌着奔波，生活，即使以前经常联系的朋友也很难见到一次。有很多热在外地打拼，为了生活为了工作都很久才回家一次，无论身处何地，无论一个人一群人，无论加着班还是挤着地铁，其实很多时候，我们都是是孤单的
With the development of the society, the relationship between people is far less close than before. Everyone is busy running and living. Even friends who used to contact often are hard to see once. There are a lot of hot people working in other places. They go home for a long time to live and work. No matter where they are, no matter a group of people, no matter with extra classes or crowded subway, in fact, most of the time, we are alone
孤单的时候你会想起谁？父母？朋友？还是远方的某个恋人？还是未知的某个唯一？很多时候，我们总是会在不经意间，在某个寒冷的冬日里想起曾经的温暖，因为父母或者恋人的一句关怀而感动的流泪
Who do you think of when you are alone? Parents? Friend? Or someone in the distance? Or some unknown one? Most of the time, we will always inadvertently, in a cold winter, think of the warmth of the past, because parents or lovers of a concern and moved tears
当我孤单的时候，我会想起少年的时光，那时的我们充满的纯真，充满了对未来的无限憧憬，更会想起来儿时的伙伴，那时的我们和小伙伴乱蹦乱跳，天天去河边玩，爬山，骑车，无忧无虑，真怀念，可是直至如今，儿时的伙伴都已经各分东西了. 那时的生活很单调，但是也是最幸福的时候
When I am lonely, I will think of my youth, that is, our innocence, infinite vision for the future, and our childhood partners. At that time, we and our little partners were jumping around, playing by the river every day, climbing mountains, cycling, carefree, and really miss. But up to now, our childhood partners have their own things At that time, life was monotonous, but also the happiest time
也会想起来以前的单纯的不算恋爱的恋爱，那时候说一句话都感觉脸红，给自心动的女生递一张纸条就开心一整天，拉一次手会让你一天都陷入瞎想，无心上课
I will also remember the simple love that didn't count as love before. When I said a word, I blushed. I handed a note to the girl who was in love with me, and I was happy all day. One hand will make you fall into blind thoughts and have no intention to attend class
其实当你孤单的时候，很多人都会想起父母，因为无论任何时候，无论你发展的是否顺利，有钱没钱，父母总是陪在你身边的，他们会无条件的鼓励你，支持你，尤其是我们遇到低谷的时候，父母的鼓励可以说是天大的支持
In fact, when you are alone, many people will think of their parents, because no matter at any time, no matter whether your development is smooth or not, whether you have money or not, parents are always with you, they will encourage you unconditionally and support you, especially when we encounter a downturn, the encouragement of parents can be said to be great support
以前小的时候我们梦想着长大，而此刻的我们越长大却越孤单，成熟后自然明白的一个点：世界上除了自己，没有谁可以一直陪着你。许多文章也说我们要学会享受孤独，依靠自己。这么说也不过是因为人必定经受孤独罢了，否则没人喜欢孤独
We used to dream of growing up when we were little, but now we are growing up more and more lonely. When we grow up, we naturally understand that there is no one in the world who can accompany you all the time except ourselves. Many articles also say that we should learn to enjoy loneliness and rely on ourselves. That's just because people must be lonely, otherwise no one likes to be lonely.
让我们伴随着这首歌结束今天的文章，当你孤单你会想起谁 你想不想找个人来陪…
Let's finish today's article with this song. When you are lonely, you will remember who you want to be with or not
那么当你孤单的时候你会想起谁呢？在你内心深处的角落里是为谁而留呢？
So who do you think of when you are alone? Who are you staying for in your inner corner?