2020-08-26

As part of the self-esteem movement in the 1970s, parents were often told to give their children positive feedback along the lines of “Great job” or “You’re so smart.” But, as leading researcher Wendy S. Grolnick puts it, praise also has a dark side.

作为二十世纪七十年代自尊心运动的一部分，家长经常被告知给予孩子们积极的评价反馈。例如做的漂亮，你太聪明了！但是，正如主创调研员Wendy S.  Grolnick所说，奖励同时也有缺点。

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20世纪70年代的“自尊运动”中，父母经常被告知，要给孩子类似于“真棒”或者“真聪明”这样的正面反馈。但正如知名研究者温迪·S.格罗尼克所说，赞扬也有副作用。

In the self esteem movement in the 1970s, parents are always told to give positive feedbacks to their children such as good job or you are so smart! But as a leading researcher says it has its side effects.