他其实没那么喜欢你

      Girs are tought a lot of stiff growing up.if a guy pinches you,he likes you .Never try to trim your own bans.And someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending.  Every movie we see,every story we're told implores is to wait for it.

      The third act twist:The inexpected declaration of love.The exception to the rule.But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending.We don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell the ones who want us from the ones who don't .The ones who will stay from the ones who will leave.

        And maybe this happy ending doesn't include a wonderful guy .Maybe it's you,on you own,picking up the pieces and starting over.Freeing yourself up for something better in the future.Maybe the happy ending is just moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this:Kowing that through all the inreturned phone calls and broken hearts through all the blinders and misread signals,through all of the pain and embarrassment.You never,ever,gave up hope.

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      女孩在成长的过程中会学到很多东西，如果一个男孩欺负你，是因为他喜欢你，不要打理你的刘海，然后有一天你会遇到非常棒的男人，从此过着幸福生活。我们看的每场电影，听的每个故事都告诉我们要耐心等待。

      而第三类情况是:无发预知的爱情宣言游离于规则之外。但有时我们太专注于寻找幸福而没有学会如何读懂别人的暗示，如何分辨谁是真正爱我们的人，如何分辨这个人是不是只是生命的过客。

      或许这个幸福的结局中并没有一个很棒的男人，可能是你，你一个人收拾好心情，然后重新开始，释放自己，为了更好的未来，可能这个幸福的结局只是继续生活，或许可能幸福的结局是这个:我们明白即使你因男人不回电话而伤心欲绝，即使你曾像没头的苍蝇一样四处碰壁，即使你曾经受伤或者出糗，你也绝不能放弃希望。