Rule1:Stand up straight with your shoulders back
法則1:站直、抬頭挺胸,你是在跟大脑传达正向、有精神的情绪,也是在告诉周围的人,你是个有自信的人。
Rule2:Treat yourself like someone you are responsible for helping
法則2:你如何對待你有責任照顧的人,就如何對待自己
Rule3:Make friends with people who want the best for you
法則3:結交希望你成為最好自己的朋友
Rule4:Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today
法則4:跟昨天的自己比,而不是跟別人的今天比,心里学家普遍认为,对自己拥有正向的错觉,是让自己心智健全最可靠的办法。不要低估你拥有的,也不要高估你没有的。
Rule5:Do not let your children do anything that makes you dislike them
法則5:不要讓小孩做出你會不喜歡他們的事
Rule6:Set your house in perfect order before you criticize the world
法則6:在你批判這個世界前,先把你的房子整理好,少点抱怨多做事情
Rule7:Pursue what is meaningful (not what is expedient)
法則7:追求有意義的事情(而不是方便、好做的事)
Rule8:Tell the truth – or, at least, don't lie
法則8:根據事實說話,至少不要騙自己,诚实的面对自己想要做的事情,而不是配合别人的期待去做事情
Rule9:Assume that the person you are listening to might know something you don't
法則9:你在聽別人說話時,假設對方可能有你不懂的事情
Rule10:Be precise in your speech
法則10:演說時,表達要簡潔精確
Rule11:Do not bother children when they are skateboarding
法則11:小孩在玩滑板時不要打擾他們(不要限制小孩發展)
Rule12:Pet a cat when you encounter one on the street
法則12:在街上遇到貓咪時,撫摸牠,不要忽略生活中可以带来的小事。