重要的不是发生了什么事，而是你如何应对这件事。

What counts/matters is not what has happened， but how you cope with it.

场景：舞蹈演员

As a dancer， the first impression counts especially when you get an audition for a role that you really want to take， so they always need to be on a diet to keep a slim body shape，but it is detrimental for their mental and physical health.